EMotions

.Saturday, January 22, 2011.

This is so me

Tang Weng Chuen Raymond
Many years of research conducted by The Gallup Organization suggest that the most
effective people are those who understand their strengths and behaviors. These
people are best able to develop strategies to meet and exceed the demands of their
daily lives, their careers, and their families.
A review of the knowledge and skills you have acquired can provide a basic sense of
your abilities, but an awareness and understanding of your natural talents will
provide true insight into the core reasons behind your consistent successes.
Your Signature Themes report presents your five most dominant themes of talent, in
the rank order revealed by your responses to StrengthsFinder. Of the 34 themes
measured, these are your "top five."
Your Signature Themes are very important in maximizing the talents that lead to
your successes. By focusing on your Signature Themes, separately and in
combination, you can identify your talents, build them into strengths, and enjoy
personal and career success through consistent, near-perfect performance.
Includer
“Stretch the circle wider.” This is the philosophy around which you orient your life.
You want to include people and make them feel part of the group. In direct contrast
to those who are drawn only to exclusive groups, you actively avoid those groups that
exclude others. You want to expand the group so that as many people as possible can
benefit from its support. You hate the sight of someone on the outside looking in. You
want to draw them in so that they can feel the warmth of the group. You are an
instinctively accepting person. Regardless of race or sex or nationality or personality
or faith, you cast few judgments. Judgments can hurt a person’s feelings. Why do that
if you don’t have to? Your accepting nature does not necessarily rest on a belief that
each of us is different and that one should respect these differences. Rather, it rests
on your conviction that fundamentally we are all the same. We are all equally
important. Thus, no one should be ignored. Each of us should be included. It is the
least we all deserve.
Command
Command leads you to take charge. Unlike some people, you feel no discomfort with
imposing your views on others. On the contrary, once your opinion is formed, you
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01/23/2011need to share it with others. Once your goal is set, you feel restless until you have
aligned others with you. You are not frightened by confrontation; rather, you know
that confrontation is the first step toward resolution. Whereas others may avoid
facing up to life’s unpleasantness, you feel compelled to present the facts or the truth,
no matter how unpleasant it may be. You need things to be clear between people and
challenge them to be clear-eyed and honest. You push them to take risks. You may
even intimidate them. And while some may resent this, labeling you opinionated,
they often willingly hand you the reins. People are drawn toward those who take a
stance and ask them to move in a certain direction. Therefore, people will be drawn
to you. You have presence. You have Command.
Input
You are inquisitive. You collect things. You might collect information—words, facts,
books, and quotations—or you might collect tangible objects such as butterflies,
baseball cards, porcelain dolls, or sepia photographs. Whatever you collect, you
collect it because it interests you. And yours is the kind of mind that finds so many
things interesting. The world is exciting precisely because of its infinite variety and
complexity. If you read a great deal, it is not necessarily to refine your theories but,
rather, to add more information to your archives. If you like to travel, it is because
each new location offers novel artifacts and facts. These can be acquired and then
stored away. Why are they worth storing? At the time of storing it is often hard to say
exactly when or why you might need them, but who knows when they might become
useful? With all those possible uses in mind, you really don’t feel comfortable
throwing anything away. So you keep acquiring and compiling and filing stuff away.
It’s interesting. It keeps your mind fresh. And perhaps one day some of it will prove
valuable.
Responsibility
Your Responsibility theme forces you to take psychological ownership for anything
you commit to, and whether large or small, you feel emotionally bound to follow it
through to completion. Your good name depends on it. If for some reason you cannot
deliver, you automatically start to look for ways to make it up to the other person.
Apologies are not enough. Excuses and rationalizations are totally unacceptable. You
will not quite be able to live with yourself until you have made restitution. This
conscientiousness, this near obsession for doing things right, and your impeccable
ethics, combine to create your reputation: utterly dependable. When assigning new
responsibilities, people will look to you first because they know it will get done. When
people come to you for help—and they soon will—you must be selective. Your
willingness to volunteer may sometimes lead you to take on more than you should.
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01/23/2011Individualization
Your Individualization theme leads you to be intrigued by the unique qualities of
each person. You are impatient with generalizations or “types” because you don’t
want to obscure what is special and distinct about each person. Instead, you focus on
the differences between individuals. You instinctively observe each person’s style,
each person’s motivation, how each thinks, and how each builds relationships. You
hear the one-of-a-kind stories in each person’s life. This theme explains why you pick
your friends just the right birthday gift, why you know that one person prefers praise
in public and another detests it, and why you tailor your teaching style to
accommodate one person’s need to be shown and another’s desire to “figure it out as
I go.” Because you are such a keen observer of other people’s strengths, you can draw
out the best in each person. This Individualization theme also helps you build
productive teams. While some search around for the perfect team “structure” or
“process,” you know instinctively that the secret to great teams is casting by
individual strengths so that everyone can do a lot of what they do well.
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Your Top 5 Themes
Includer
Command
Input
Responsibility
Individualization
Includer
Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Includer theme are accepting of others. They show
awareness of those who feel left out, and make an effort to include them.
Your Personalized Strengths Insights
What makes you stand out?
It’s very likely that you genuinely care for every person you meet. You have a capacity for
discovering a person’s unique interests and characteristics. You make a special effort to
welcome newcomers and strangers into your life. Chances are good that you capitalize on
your ability to ask questions and listen to people’s answers, especially when meeting
strangers or newcomers. You might even be tempted to eavesdrop on what they are telling
someone else. Not wanting anyone to feel like an outsider, you are apt to draw individuals
into the conversation. Unquestionably, you search for reasons to involve them in your own or
the group’s activities. Because of your strengths, you solicit the thoughts, feelings, and advice
of many people. You do not want anyone to feel left out of a conversation, activity, meeting,
plan, or decision. Instinctively, you want everyone to feel part of the group and its activities.
You do and say things to spare people the misery of rejection and loneliness. Once someone
joins your circle, you identify the talents that make this person so very special. By nature, you
find a way to involve everyone so each person has a good experience. You strive to create a
sense of belonging and acceptance. When someone feels left out, you often are the person
who finds a way to engage that individual in the group’s activities and conversations.
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Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Command theme have presence. They can take
control of a situation and make decisions.
Your Personalized Strengths Insights
What makes you stand out?
Driven by your talents, you sometimes feel comfortable sharing your original ideas with
groups. Perhaps they welcome your innovations. Maybe they realize you suggest novel ways
of doing things they would never have considered. Chances are good that you sometimes
insist that you need to work by yourself. You may reject being too closely supervised.
Perhaps as a child you insisted on having your own space and being independent. Because of
your strengths, you occasionally vied for the top ranking in contests or games as a child. You
might remember a few instances of being unusually self-sufficient, assertive, or bold.
Instinctively, you are known for being realistic and unsentimental. Nonetheless, there are
times when you wish you did a better job of expressing your own feelings and allowing
others to voice theirs. The moment people start getting too emotional, you tend to redirect
their attention to practical matters or objective facts. It’s very likely that you commonly
influence people to produce results, sign up to work on projects, or rally around causes. When
you take time to know them as individuals, many people are willing to move into action at
your prompting. They are apt to realize you appreciate their special qualities, talents,
interests, or experiences.
Input
Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Input theme have a craving to know more. Often
they like to collect and archive all kinds of information.
Your Personalized Strengths Insights
What makes you stand out?
Because of your strengths, you genuinely feel better about life when you can take the mystery
out of complicated procedures. Often you outline in detail the steps to understand exactly
what is happening and why. It’s very likely that you comprehend what has gone wrong.
Eagerly, you uncover facts. Sorting through lots of information rarely intimidates you. You
welcome the abundance of information. Like a detective, you sort through it and identify key
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01/23/2011pieces of evidence. Following these leads, you bring the big picture into view. Next, you
generate schemes for solving the problem. Finally, you choose the best option after
considering prevailing circumstances, available resources, and desired outcomes.
Instinctively, you can simplify the most complex, convoluted, or intricate procedure. People
usually rely on you to offer clear and easy-to-comprehend explanations. Driven by your
talents, you enjoy sharing ideas, exchanging information, and trading stories. During
conversations, you usually are the person who simplifies complicated details. You can help
individuals understand intricate procedures, theories, regulations, or plans. Chances are good
that you customarily figure out what makes each person special. You talk to, observe, or
study individuals who produce nothing less than excellence to identify what inspires them.
Unquestionably, you prefer to associate with those who share your passion for taking
something good and making it better. Once you understand what drives a person, you can
motivate him or her to transform whatever was made better into something utterly superb.
Responsibility
Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Responsibility theme take psychological ownership
of what they say they will do. They are committed to stable values such as honesty and
loyalty.
Your Personalized Strengths Insights
What makes you stand out?
Driven by your talents, you choose your friends with care and caution. Like you, these
individuals have a reputation for honoring their commitments. Like you, they do exactly what
they say they will do. Your most enduring friendships are built on a foundation of mutual
trust. Instinctively, you have a strong sense of commitment. It motivates you to make sure
that things are carried through to completion even when difficulties arise. Chances are good
that you sometimes volunteer to do things rather than wait to be asked to assume more duties.
By nature, you ordinarily feel very good about yourself and life in general when you keep all
the promises you have made to yourself and others. Because of your strengths, you may wish
to have a broader range of control and accountability on the job or in your personal life.
Individualization
Shared Theme Description
People who are especially talented in the Individualization theme are intrigued with the
unique qualities of each person. They have a gift for figuring out how people who are
different can work together productively.
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01/23/2011Your Personalized Strengths Insights
What makes you stand out?
Chances are good that you occasionally figure out what factors caused someone to behave in
a certain way. Once in a while, you present evidence that explains why a particular event
occurred. Perhaps some people rely on you to help them find reasonable explanations. Driven
by your talents, you sometimes like to participate in meetings with individuals who are trying
to set their goals. Maybe you ask questions or make suggestions that help them clearly define
their objectives. Without your intervention, some people might flounder as they attempt to
identify their performance targets. Instinctively, you are keenly aware of people’s unique
traits. You notice characteristics that distinguish each person from everyone else. By nature,
you sometimes rely on reason to determine how an event, decision, or condition led to a
specific event. Perhaps you desire to understand how things converge to produce the final
result. It’s very likely that you distinguish the fine points of each person’s contribution to a
conversation. You guide the exchange of information by drawing out the singular
perspectives of everyone involved. You help individuals bring forth their varied, peculiar,
eccentric, quaint, or unusual viewpoints. By honoring the uniqueness of each human being,
you enliven many dialogues.
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LeIMen-Ray

11:44 PM

.Friday, December 10, 2010.

1 The class not bonded
2 The class got cliques
3 The cliques do not get along
4 The class is not active
5 The class is lazy
6 The class is not high
7 The whole class cannot come on time
8 always got late people
9 always got ppl never going lec
10 always got ppl never go tut
11 never study
12 dun like to study
13 like to complain
14 like to cheat
15 are dishonest
16 are not friendly
17 are self centered
18 are fierce
19 always think they are right
20 brats
21 spoil t brats
22 cannot get along with HQ
23 cannot get along with e
24 cannot get along with a
25 cannot get along with ec
26 cannot really click..
27 guailan
28 not independent
29 LATE
30 no leadership
31 no opinions
32 cannot think
33 always want the best
34 never think for the rest
35 cannot work tgt
36 childish
37 make fun of others
38 evil
39 no moral values
40 always blame ppl
41 always shoot ppl
42 f..k up attitude
43 not sporty
44 dun listen in class
45 talk in class
46 sms in class
47 gossip in class
48 always sit with group
49 always the same groups
50 always group with known frens
51 thinks they can get wad they want
52 selfish
53 inconsiderable
54 not good in this and that
55 keep asking ppl this and that
56 cannot check their timetable
57 anti-social
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will update too tired to think....

LeIMen-Ray

3:07 AM

It started on Thursday(9/12/10)
At seven or maybe eight(in the morning)
You crashed into my world with a boom

U was standing there
I turn around and saw u
U were all alone and u
look back at me

U giggle a bit
i find it weird
but u felt familar
so i didnt bother so much

I walk past u
i took a detour
i alighted
and u was just right behind me
it was so funny

went to the exit point
my card didnt work at first
u almost knocked into me
I turn around again
u was just behind

i was smiling
and feeling weird
but it was funny
it was so interesting.
u turn out right
i went out straight
and u were gone...

The school was okay. Pretty slack
and shagged

Was super tired after lab
but got full marks

Went home late.
had dinner
went to play FuzionBAll

I become a coach
i met new frens
I met a tennis coach
Well it was fun .
Words cannot describe it
Play till so late

This morning too shagged
go to school early
walk to mac and eat.

Went to Club room and chat
made a new fren called en yi and sharon
Well it was fun
went to class late
didnt focus in class
after class went with frens
then go back school briefing
teach ZX maths
Chatted with ting rui and ka yui
answer shirley and tiffany

Then went home
and fell asleep
had dinner
then blogging later going to sleep again
pack my NO 3
change my phone....
wake up early tmr .....

LeIMen-Ray

2:54 AM

.Saturday, November 20, 2010.

Back to blogging for a while.
Well , lot of things had happened lately but thanks goodness all is coming to an end.
Well, more things had ended abruptly but well some with a good cause other well what can i say. New friendship was forged and made. This is now a need for me to maintain those friendship i want and those that i do not want. NCC is an organization that i try my best not to be tied into. The organization is pretty mess up right now.

Well, this are friendship that i must maintain and keep for the rest of my life. Friendship with Ivy,Clement,WenYi,Binglin,SinMiao,Christopher,ChenYang,Wilson,MeiJin,JingWen,ChengEe,Cheryl. These are friends that i do not want to lose, they are those whom i feel family with. Bond that will not faded or disappear. Even with minimum contact, the bond is still strong. These are my most treasured possession. Well , i do have many friends but friends that become buddys for life are not many.

You do hang out with different friends daily, making new friends and all that. Some friendship become mild when a rare portion of it become strong.

Well there are also friendship that you want to maintain and keep for live. For me, Friendship made in camps and events are those i wish to keep. Like my red campers friends, CSC camp group ,TingRui,GinaTan,kelyn and bingyang, YOG group especially my JieJies Melissa,YuYing,Wang Fei and Tiwi , well , my sec 1 classes ,ZhengZhou friends,hongWen friendships my juniors and my student council frens.

Well, some friendship nothing what happen, it will never go strong , it will be on and off. Friend ship with my poly class has always been like this, well , Sec 3 and 4 are similar too. No matter what happen it will not work out. They may still be fren but pretty much on the surface....

Well, Friendship are for life for some , others not. It is best to choose wisely.

Back to poly life. I need to get my spirit up and kicking. I need to study hard and maintain my activities as well. I am falling behind and i need to start catching up if not it might be like falling off a trend mill when u cannot maintain speed.Well that is for studies side.

As for romance and friendship, well friendship been fun especially the new one i made. Well, still waiting to go and buy my horoscope book looking for people to pei me do some shopping haha. Well, romance has not not smooth so far. It seems so near yet so far.

Well, yesterday had one hell of a time. Went to school as normal. Then got CCN day, grab cookies from the clubroom and task my class to sell it. Well, it went well i guess. Then come the tiring event, street soccer with classmates and their frens. Wow it was super tiring,the heat was far too torturing for us.

I went home at 4 plus, went to east gate and saw ZX , then boarded my bus. I was tired so i was resting on the second floor of the bus, making myself cool down. Finally about to reach my stop, i went down to the exit area. To my astonishment, i saw Ivy who was sitting there alone. I chatted with her and then we alighted . however, Ivy stop at the wrong stop. Hence we walk down to the next bus stop. Well, there was a short cut which was pretty dangerous so we took a big turn. Well, for the first time was alone with her for pretty much a long time. We had a good time i think. We took a big turn and arrived at the bus stop. If that was not the bus stop she would have cab or i would bring her across to another bus stop. I didnt want her to tire out or waste money . YOKATTA , there was a bus to her place and i waited for her to leave first then i went home. On the way to the bus stop,i gave her a packet of cookies^^. Then we sms till she was busy.

Reach home, charge my phone for a while, then help my mum ran errands then i use our oversea phone to sms ivy . then was back but without the stuff. Then i took my phone and went to bugis to meet my classmate, we had steamboat tgt and boy did we eat till we drop. I went popular to search still cannot find then i went to buy hamster stuff then meet up with frens again then went bookstore but didnt see the book i wanted. Then went home.

Well, i wonder will feelings get stronger for me till i cannot control . Wad ever will happen, it is for fate,affinity and time to tell.
well <3
sometimes the person u like or love is happy , u can be happy to even if she was not in a r/s with you ^^
it took a while to actually feel that way

LeIMen-Ray

1:32 AM